Tuesday, 10 March 2009
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Innervisions
By Stevie Wonder
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Oh shit, I've totally got to change my current inner dialogue.
From: he's sexy, he's a damn good bass player, he's funny, he's open, he's got passion, he's real, he's got perspective.
To: Fuck, he's 24, he lives with his parents, he can't spell, he works at the-enemy-of-enemies-Walmart (but in produce, isn't that cute?) And he's 24.
Help.
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Comments (7)
First off: I live in my parents basement and can't spell--so I take offense to both those things bothering you :)
Secondly: Bass players totally have to take any job they can get (ie, evil walmart)
Thirdly: the 24 thing? Two of my very good guy friends are dating 23 and 24 year olds. In their case, I really do think they have a daddy complex, BUT--man--I want my thirty year old girl friends to be dating 24 year old guys. Age is relative. Unless, of course, we're talking about frat boys. That's different.
Why not? life's short--and it's rare to find funny, passionate, perspective all in one place.
And WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?
I also like that it's all Rachel's on this post so far. Yeah, no extra a for either you.
Anyhow I have to respond.
1. no it's not like the frat boys, at all. And I'll just state that as a truth. (but you totally made me laugh when I remembered the age statement thing)
2. YES these male friends of mine are 30--one will be 31 in a month and the other will be 31 in august. Their girlfriends are 23--maybe 24?
3. I still say age is relative...if you enjoy him for now, don't sweat it, dude. Call him your trophy boy or something. One of the guys that's dating a younger girl is totally in love and is considering the 'm' word--but is worried he'll get bored with her. He won't know until he lets it play out more, eh? In all his problems with her, it was never "But she's 23!"--there were other issues, mostly having to do with the fact that she's had less experiences than him, not the actual age difference. Guys don't let the age thing be such a big deal. I suggest you don't either.
And, finally I know you think you want an older man, but maybe he's an old man in a young man's body, hmmm? (Not something I'd ever sat about any of the frat boys, just so you know, okay?) It's just one of those things that happen. One of my friends LOVES tall men--totally digs them. Always had tall boyfriends. Now she's been married for 5 or 6 years to someone shorter than she. She wanted a tall guy, but she got a short one. And loves him dearly.
So there.
actually, I'm just trying to get the point across to you to not worry about this or let it bother you so much. Have fun with it, eh?
@RaLuvsMeat -
oh and she's been on facebook with everyone else.